• For Me, There is No Question

    +ACY-nbsp+ADs Recently a closeted man said to me, +ACI-It would have been better for you if your father had never came out to you.+ACI I've had a lot of … Read More...

    For Me, There is No Question
  • January: I Envy The Honesty

    Do you wish your dad had come out to you? +ACY-nbsp+ADs This has been a question I've heard more than once and I'm not really sure what the answer … Read More...

    January: I Envy The Honesty
  • Finding the Path

    +ACI-Do you wish your dad had come out to you sooner?+ACI It's a question I have been asked often and a question I have been pondering more lately as I … Read More...

    Finding the Path
  • I Would Rather Know

    Should I tell my children? That is a question I have been asked by a number of gay men over the years who are closeted in straight marriages in … Read More...

    I Would Rather Know
  • Hey Dad, Happy Pride

    Hey Dad, It was Father's Day last week, and Mark and I were in France after a couple weeks in Italy. I thought of you while I walked along the … Read More...

    Hey Dad, Happy Pride
  • Dear Dad – We’ve Come A Long Way

    +ACY-nbsp+ADs +ACY-nbsp+ADs +ACY-nbsp+ADs +ACY-nbsp+ADs Dear Dad - I remember our first Pride celebration together in Sweden eight years ago. You mentioned … Read More...

    Dear Dad – We’ve Come A Long Way
  • Dear Dad, The grandkids are alright

    So, Dad, your great-granddaughter told me a story. That little girl who went to you so easily when she was only a year old, is all grown up and … Read More...

    Dear Dad, The grandkids are alright
  • Dear Dad

    Dear Dad, I hope this Father's Day you feel free to be happy. You are retired and your hardest days, I believe, are behind you. You live in LA and … Read More...

    Dear Dad