• I Would Rather Know

    Should I tell my children? That is a question I have been asked by a number of gay men over the years who are closeted in straight marriages in … Read More...

    I Would Rather Know
  • Hey Dad, Happy Pride

    Hey Dad, It was Father's Day last week, and Mark and I were in France after a couple weeks in Italy. I thought of you while I walked along the … Read More...

    Hey Dad, Happy Pride
  • Dear Dad – We’ve Come A Long Way

    +ACY-nbsp+ADs +ACY-nbsp+ADs +ACY-nbsp+ADs +ACY-nbsp+ADs Dear Dad - I remember our first Pride celebration together in Sweden eight years ago. You mentioned … Read More...

    Dear Dad – We’ve Come A Long Way
  • Dear Dad, The grandkids are alright

    So, Dad, your great-granddaughter told me a story. That little girl who went to you so easily when she was only a year old, is all grown up and … Read More...

    Dear Dad, The grandkids are alright
  • Dear Dad

    Dear Dad, I hope this Father's Day you feel free to be happy. You are retired and your hardest days, I believe, are behind you. You live in LA and … Read More...

    Dear Dad
  • Love you, Ma

    The day I discovered my dad was gay came after a conversation I had with him in which I asked why he didn't have a girlfriend. He said something about … Read More...

    Love you, Ma
  • Mom Said Yes

    Mom, I am probably too hard on you. I might want to blame you for staying married to dad, or judge you for this or that, but when it comes down to it, … Read More...

    Mom Said Yes
  • I wanted you to have a father

    My mother had known for decades that Dad was gay. He told me so in 1975 when he came out to me. It would be another decade before I had the nerve … Read More...

    I wanted you to have a father